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The Right Way to Compliment and Show Thanks in Chinese

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It’s that time of year again when we show goodwill to all men, so it seemed only right to take some time and learn some words and phrases that show gratitude, appreciation and giving compliments. Praise and showing appreciation in Chinese culture is very different to how things are done in the west, and modesty and humility are held in high regard. Knowing how to show thanks in Chinese demonstrates your understanding, appreciation and respect for Chinese culture, even if China is beginning to accept more western ways.

Complimentary Phrases

Level: Beginners

Use one of the following adverbs + adjective to create a complimentary phrase:

…! (zhēn…) …really..!

…! (hǎo…) ….very/so..!

…! (hěn…) …quite/very..!

How to Compliment Appearances

The following phrases are made using an adverb such as the ones above with an adjective related to appearance. Some commonly used adjectives for appearance are:

漂亮 (piào liang) pretty

 (měi) beautiful

 (shuài) handsome

 (kù) cool

可爱 (kě ài) cute/ adorable

年轻 (nián qīng) young

你好美!(nǐ hǎo měi)  You are so pretty!

你的眼睛真好看!(nǐ de yǎn jing zhēn hǎo kàn) Your eyes are so beautiful!

你的鞋子很酷!(nǐ de xié zi hěn kù) Your shoes are so cool!

你的宝宝好可爱!(nǐ de bǎo bǎo hǎo kě ài) Your baby is so cute!

你看起来很年轻!(nǐ kàn qǐ lái hěn nián qīng) You look so young!

How to Compliment Behaviour and Character

To compliment a talent, skill or positive character trait that someone possesses, you can use the following phrases:

 (hǎo) good/well

厉害 (lì hai) serious (-ly good)

温柔 (wēn róu) gentle

有意思 (yǒu yì si) interesting/fun

有趣 (yǒu qù) interesting/fascinating

 (guāi) well-behaved

聪明 (cōng ming) smart/intelligent

 (bàng) great

你真好!(nǐ zhēn hǎo) You are so nice!

你游泳真厉害!(nǐ yóu yǒng zhēn lì hai) You are really good at swimming!!

真有趣!(zhēn yǒu qù) That’s funny!

你的厨艺真好!(nǐ de chú yì zhēn hǎo) You cook really well!

宝贝,你真棒!(bǎo bèi, nǐ zhēn bàng)  Sweet heart, you’re so great!

Level: Advanced

Appearance:

你看起来像高中生!(nǐ kàn qǐ lái xiàng gāo zhōng shēng) You look like you could be a high school student.

Behaviour and Character:

这是你做的菜?我想天天去你家吃饭。(zhè shì nǐ  zuò de cài?  Wǒ xiǎng tiān tiān qù nǐ jiā chī fàn) Did you cook this?! I want to eat at your home every day.

Receiving Compliments

In Chinese culture modesty is highly prized and if someone was to give you a compliment, you would never say ‘thank you’. In the west, saying ‘thanks’ is just a polite way to accept a compliment, whereas in Chinese culture, this would be egotistical. Although, it is fair to say that more and more Chinese people are accepting the more western way of receiving compliments

Instead of accepting a compliment, it is common to deflect the compliment or praise by using one of the following phrases:

哪里, 哪里。(nǎ li nǎ li) Where? Where? (No, I’m not…)

Although the literal translation of this phrase is ‘Where? Where?’, the actual meaning behind it is ‘cannot accept this compliment’. In fact, most of the phrases here can be used in a similar way to 哪里,哪里 (nǎ li nǎ li), but the following are more commonly used:

一般,一般。(yī bān, yī bān) Not good, not good (I’m just so-so)

还好,还好。 (hái hǎo, hái hǎo) Not bad, not bad. (I’m tolerable…)

不,不,不 (bù, bù, bù) No, no, no…

Here are some compliments you might give and receive in China, and some deflecting responses:

Compliment:

 

Reply:

Another common and easy way to reflect praise is by using the following:

是吗 (真的吗)?(shì ma (zhēn de ma?)) …  Really? …

Compliment:

 

Reply:

These replies below are a little negative, but are still traditional responses to compliments and praise.

还行吧。(hái xíng ba) Just so-so.

马马虎虎。(mǎ ma hū hū) Just so-so.

也就这样, …。(yě jiù zhè yàng…)  It’s just as it is, …

Compliment:

 

Reply:

Just like in the west, simply saying ‘thanks’ is becoming the more modern way to show gratitude and appreciation in Chinese:

谢谢 (xiè xie), …

Compliment:

 

Reply:

Showing Gratitude 道谢 (dào xiè)

Although it is not customary to accept compliments, it is very important to show gratitude if someone has gone out of their way to help you.

The following expressions of gratitude range from casually thanking friends, to showing gratitude to someone who has helped you in a significant way.

谢谢 (xiè xie) Thanks

谢谢你 (xiè xie nǐ) Thank you

(太) 辛苦你了 (tài xīn kǔ le) / 麻烦你了 (má fan nǐ le) I‘ve caused you trouble.

多亏你了 (duō kuī nǐ le) Thanks to you

非常感谢 (fēi cháng gǎn xiè) / 十分感谢 (shí fēn gǎn xiè) / 太感谢(…)了 (tài gǎn xiè … le) Extremely grateful

感激不尽 (gǎn jī bú jìn) / 万分感谢 (wàn fēn gǎn xiè) Can’t thank enough

One of the simplest ways to show gratitude is to say 谢谢 (xiè xie) ‘thank you’.

谢谢你帮我忙。(xiè xie nǐ bāng wǒ máng) Thank you for helping me.

To show ‘appreciation’ and ‘gratitude’ you can use 感谢 (gǎn xiè):

非常感谢您的意见。(fēi cháng gǎn xiè nín de yì jiàn) I really appreciate your opinions

To explain to someone that you want to ‘express thanks’, you can say 表示感谢 (biǎo shì gǎn xiè):

为了表示感谢,我准备了一份薄礼,请笑纳。(wèi le biǎo shì gǎn xiè, wǒ zhǔn bèi le yī fèn bó lǐ, qǐng xiào nà) Please accept my gift as thanks.  (Literal: To express my thanks, I prepared a small gift. Please kindly accept it.)

You can also say thanks indirectly, without using a form of 谢谢 (xiè xiè):

太麻烦你了。(tài má fan nǐ le) I’ve caused you too much trouble.

太辛苦了。(tài xīn kǔ le) I’ve caused you too much trouble.

真不好意思。(zhēn bù hǎo yì si) I’m so embarrassed.

Responding to Gratitude

Unlike in English, there is no phrase that means ‘you’re welcome’, but deflect gratitude with the following:

不谢。 (bú xiè) Don’t thank me.

不客气。(bú kè qi) Don’t be polite.

不用 (谢)。(bù yòng xiè)  No need (for thanks).

哪里。(nǎ lǐ) It was nothing.

没事。(méi shì) It was nothing.

没什么。(méi shén me) It wasn’t anything.

If you know of other ways to show gratitude in Chinese, please share your ideas with us below!
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